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[{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1522386535142","data":"<p>Take a moment to think about all those times you've attended an event or watched interviews of people, whom society considers to be successful, \"Success\" is a fairly relative concept whose definition varies from person to person. When those successful people are asked to share their wisdom and offer some advice to youngsters so that they could achieve their goals, most of the time what we hear them say are things like,\"Hard Work, Dedication, Confidence, Focus, Purpose\" etc. If you ask a High School student to take out a paper and ask him to note down ingredients of a successful life he\/she would probably state the same points or possibly even more, and that made me wonder if we know what to do already, then why is it that most of  us aren't where we want to be? are we seeking the right answers? we can't if we don't ask the right questions.  intuition developed because of our subconscious mind has a lot to do with how we perceive, and since it happens in a domain we lack control over, it limits perception to some preconceived notions, and that is why I think we often miss a few key factors that can actually open up a whole new range of possibilities in our lives.  when a single person tries to address a group of people, from his POV what he sees is a normalized group of individuals, and problems that each individual has are highly specific to that single person and I used to find it odd that, I never felt a need to approach someone to seek motivation from, because every time I did, the end conclusion was clear and mostly the same that, these people only remember how they got there but don't quite understand the nature of drive that helped them accomplish goals in their lives, and their advice and the temporary \"motivation\" it provides or whatever you call it, is just like a medicine that treats the symptoms and leaves the root cause unaddressed. \"IT IS COMPLETELY USELESS !! \". <\/p><p><br><\/p><p>Have you ever heard people from the earlier generation bragging about how they went through hardships in their times and stood firm and worked hard despite the odds?  and we are expected to exceed that standard because we seem to possess freedom of choice and action along with all the resources we need. It may sound counter-intuitive to conclude that,  having such comforts doesn't help as much as their absence does. so does that mean? we need problems in our lives to urge us to act in ways that make us strong and responsible?  not necessarily ...<\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1522434859701","data":"5abe83a342275"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1522434914676","data":"As it goes with the laws of nature,  what we need is an imbalance that sets things in motion,  if we draw an analogy between life and an electric circuit, our pursuit to move further would be a quest for finding that potential difference to get the current running ... problems in life do it for free,  but they also bring repercussions with them ... those who fail to wield it often succumb, while some become resilient and some of us even become strong enough that we kind of overshoot to places we wouldn't expect life would take us ...  and this bottom-up perspective of how things are, fits pretty well.  So what I believe is that instead of seeking ways to get where we want to from someone else, we must look into ourselves, this is also one of the cliche sentences we hear more often, and is also overlooked because people don't usually agree that they lack better understanding on themselves.  what I mean by \"looking within\" is to spend the time to truly figure out a path that resonates with our beliefs,ideas and set of values,  I guess this is what finding passion truly means ... this gives us a clear sense and creates contrast between who we are and who we  were meant to be, and this realization itself creates that necessary imbalance we need to move forward, unlike other kinds of motivation garbage this one lasts longer. which in turn enables us to take small \"CONSISTENT\" steps towards a life that makes us feel alive, and with consistent thinking come strong \"FOCUS\",  \"PROFICIENCY\" and an undeterred \"WILL\" that motivates us to \"WORK HARD\" and infamous among students like me \"DISCIPLINE\" comes along too,  all of which don't completely assure a happily ever after life or success, which brings us to the most important part,  we lack complete control over everything in life,  and it is still a play of chances, all we can do is take steps to increase chances towards a favourable outcome, so it is also important to view possibilities and opportunities seperately, no matter what the amount of time and magnitude of resources we invest in something we cherish, if things get out of control leading to a failure we must never fail to consider the opportunity that being alive with this gift of perfected human life to think and act gives us,  so when someone says,\"doing so would guarantee you success\" just smile at the poor person and if feasible help him\/her understand that  outcomes in life aren't certain ... and he\/she is feeding a toxic mindset that makes us vulnerable when it comes to accepting failure ... it is not possible to gain the relatively infinite wisdom in a single lifetime, and that is why I believe, the best help we could offer each other is to share our experiences gained from failures and mistakes in our lives that help us think better and improvise ... this is what I thought through my journey from the day I regret getting into this college to today, when I still regret being here but with a significant difference,  I've learned to focus on anything good that I am left with rather than thinking about what I've lost ... and I guess thats an important lesson which I hope you realize without going through as much trouble as I went through in my life ...  <div><br><\/div><div>>> sudo jailbreak   <\/div><div>>> echo \"wisdom is contageous\"<\/div>"}]

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