We should think and accept in a positive way. The main reasons for failures are <\/span><\/p>1. Lack of interest
2.Pressure<\/p>
1. Lack of interest:<\/b> As we all are unique, no one's mindset and interests are same. They differ from person to person. Everyone has got their own interest and skill in different fields by god's grace. For example, A person may be interested in sports rather than studies or in special arts like dance, music and dramas etc. So we should consider our strengths and enhance them. But parents nowadays force their children to take up only studies.This has been a major problem for youth today.<\/p>
2. Pressure:<\/b> Students are being confined to only studies. the main reason for pressure is comparing. Parents compare one child with other. They compare like this \"see that child is scoring more than you, why can't you score more than him\"<\/p>
These type of comparisons lead us to depressions. Trust me friends we are all like wonders of this world. we don't compare taj mahal with Eifel tower. Likewise, why should we compare our children with others.<\/p>
Solutions:<\/b><\/p>
Parents should support and encourage their children to take part in their interested fields. Now Dhoni had success because his parents encouraged him. <\/p>
We should not compare children. If you want to compare, do it in a positive way. If we do like this, most of the children climb the heights of success.<\/p>
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If we consider some of the great people now, they have faced many problems to achieve this status.
For example 1. The person who was a drop out from school became a great scientist. He is Einstein<\/b>. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1455986625680","data":"56c8982a176e6"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1455986618163","data":"
2.Bill gates, and his quote proves the above statement \"Some times i failed in exams, but my friend passed all. Finally he got a job in Microsoft, but I became the founder of microsoft.\" \n<\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1455986708344","data":"56c8988229c8f"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1455986704703","data":"
3. The person who worked as a paperboy, became Dr.A.P.J abdul kalam. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1455986743146","data":"56c8989ea6a99"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1455986760521","data":"
4. The person who was kicked out from dance school became Michael jackson. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1455986789794","data":"56c898cf60fbd"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1455986811267","data":"
5.The person who was kicked out from auditions of films, became Big B( Amitabh Bachchan) like these there are many examples........ <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1455986826623","data":"56c898f208e22"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1455986844011","data":"
The common solution for being confident from childhood is reading Bhagavad Geetha, bible or Quran. In Bhagavadgeetha Lord says \" Do your work sincerely and heartfully and don't expect any result as you do your duties and believe in me. Then the success follows you. <\/p>
From our childhood, we need to imbibe Geetha in our character so that we shall become confident enough to face any kind of problem and one can understand suicide is a ruthless crime. If it is imbibed one can able to resolve dilemmas and can differentiate right or wrong. Frankly saying it is like a best personality development book.<\/p>
According to Swami Vivekananda's perception, the verse in the second chapter has got a great value<\/p>
\"Klaibyam masmagamah pardha, naithatva yupapadhyadhe<\/p>
kshudram, hrudaya dhorbalyam, thakthvotthista parantapa\"<\/p>
this verse changed the life of Swami Vivekananda. As he says, strength is life and weakness is death has derived from this verse. This is the verse which fills the heart of a coward with courage(here arjuna.) <\/p>
So please read this and apply this. We can observe change within 41 days.<\/p>
CONTRIBUTORS: Lalitesh.SP and <\/span>SD Pavan Kumar<\/span><\/p>"}]