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[{"data":"Family comprises of 3 main things \n1) Sukoon (Peace),\n2) Raham (Mercy), and\n3) Mawaddah (Love)<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385512518},{"data":"Sukoon or sakin in Arabic literally translates to 'lack of movement'. That is the heart, eyes, interest, concern, compassion, mutual connection and mind etc lack movement away from the one you dedicated your life to (as in your spouse).<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385628896},{"data":"Sukoon also means that the home is like a port where a ship returns, where one comes to find relaxation, where one doesn't need to hold his\/her defences high, where one can be himself and not pretend anything. We come into a port to get out of a storm. What good is a port with a raging storm inside? <\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385644499},{"data":"Rahmah on the next hand is to do good to someone or in a situation where not to do so would be entirely justifiable.<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385658332},{"data":"If you're returning good for good its not mercy remember! But when you're returning good for bad that's mercy!\nThat's what we expect from God when one of his name Ar-Rahman stands for raham which he does by showering his blessings on his slave even when the slave tips off the right path.<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385676297},{"data":"We don't tell God to give us as much good we give him, we beg Him to do us good even though we do bad all the time, forgive us even if we don't deserve it, we try to anger and offend Him all the time but plede Him to not get angry or offended because you are Ar-Rahman - Have mercy on us even though we don't deserve it.<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385693766},{"data":"Having mercy on spouse when he \/she is not in a position to do the daily chores, i.e cannot fulfill their duties anymore, are weak or are sick etc, when they do funny things and slip up. In these times you don't go for shopping, you honor the good you received from them from all these years and you stick by them!<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385707232},{"data":"A story of a very old man in his early 80's who visits the doc and tells the nurse that he is in an urgency to finish up the appointment asap, and when asked why is it so? He replies that he has to have breakfast with his wife like he does on a daily basis and when the nurse asks where is she, he replies \"a rehab centre\" she has dementia and has lost her mind.\nWhen asked if she remembers him or recognises him, an answer in negative pops up, and when finally asked then what makes him so bothered since she doesn't even know who he was, the old man replies I'm bothered because I know who she is!<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385722364},{"data":"This is rahmah honoring the good u got through out your life. The house is like that that your heart doesn't wish to leave it due to the sukoon in it.\n<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385745782},{"data":"And speaking of love:<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385761199},{"data":"You don't fall in love\nFalling hurts ,try free falling once while you're standing if you don't believe my words lol<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385779482},{"data":"You grow in love.\nSo that you can be in love at every instance of your day, all days in your life.\nAnd what more to be said then just this for the topic love?\n<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385792165},{"data":"---------<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385959858},{"data":"The above words were presented by M. Yawar Baig, an amazing human MashaAllah, for getting more indepth knowledge regarding this topic, kindly search the title of this post on YouTube and have your mind blown.<\/p>","type":"txt","id":1586385824732}]

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