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\"The Indie scene in India is dead\", claimed a learned philosopher of all things on a particularly cloudy evening at The Gallery Cafe which was hosting an open mic session that went on to host some of the finest talents from Hyderabad I've had the pleasure to witness.<\/p>
\"There is no originality left anymore,\" he continued, before finishing earnestly and sipping coffee that can only be described as Pretentious Grande, \"At least the rock and metal scene is still pretty tight, otherwise all these soft Indie rock and pop-rock songs, there's no future for that.\" And for a while, I believed him. <\/p>
That is, until I heard about Tejas. <\/p>
Starting in 2011 and having multiple live shows to his name, 28-year old Tejas from Mumbai - although saying he is from Mumbai would be a disservice to the sheer force of will and amount of dedication he has to stay on the road performing across the country - brought about a pop-rock force to be reckoned with in the thriving Indian Indie music scene, a scene which he had discovered after moving here for his studies from Dubai. <\/p>
With a show lined up at Tabula Rasa Bar in Hyderabad on the 27th of October, we spoke to Tejas over the phone about his music, the journey so far, lessons from live gigs and more. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508940380061","data":"59f0cef9edfaf"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508940387877","data":"
\"I've always been interested in music,\" says Tejas, responding to my question on what started his journey as an artist and a performer, \"I started learning pretty young and in school. My parents used to move around a lot and I ended up growing up in Dubai until I was 18, which is when I had to return to India. So here I was, back in the country, about to join a college and music as a hobby I was really interested in.\" <\/p>
Tejas goes on to talk about how it was never his intention to become a professional performer, \"Can one really plan this sort of thing, or is it more of going along with the flow?\" he laughs, \"When I came to India, it was quickly apparent that there was a thriving indie music scene here, and this was the type of music I really liked. Eventually, I started performing various gigs around the college but I'd never actually intended this to be a career. It just happened.\" <\/p>
Tejas established his group in 2011 while continuing to carry on with this life, getting his Masters degree and working. He would go on to work as a host on a radio station as well as in advertising, \"You saw these incredibly creative people come together and just, be creative and you say to yourself that you want to do that too! My time in advertising has introduced me to some incredible, invaluable people.\" <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508950863262","data":"59f0cf80e1d94"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508950865727","data":"
Managing the work-life balance when every person who has seen you perform live is talking about you is difficult, as Tejas confirms, \"It was getting incredibly difficult for me to keep my job while still performing and still being on the road. So I quit my job in 2015\", he says, a hint of a smile in his voice, \"Ever since then it has been one gig after another to perform, one story after another to tell.\" <\/p>
Talking about his work and the latest album, titled 'Make It Happen', Tejas says, \"These are deeply personal works, and I'm an incredibly slow songwriter, it usually takes me a year to put everything together,\" he laughs, before responding to a question about the thought process behind writing songs, \"To be honest, it is more of letting thoughts flow as they come and seeing what works and what doesn't. I know it sounds tedious, but that is why it takes me so long to put everything together!\"<\/p>
\"It's more of a letting your mind wander and gather your thoughts thing, like don't dwell too much on what does not work, just keep pushing forward till you find what you need,\" he continues, \"This has led to the creation of some really diverse tracks.\" <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508951565308","data":"59f0cf8d1549b"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508951569676","data":"
Tejas draws inspiration from some of the finest pop-rock musicians over the last few decades, as well as pop-culture and comic books. Speaking of the sound of Tejas and where it is derived from, he says, \"I had a certain type of music I listened to while growing up and I wanted to recreate that and present it to the world to the best of my abilities. I daresay I've more or less done so.\"<\/p>
Pop-Rock has been around since the 1950s, originating in a time when Rock music was just beginning to make a mark on the music scene around the world with its hard and heavy tone. Pop-rock adheres to the similar styles of rock music, but instead of going heavy on the snares and the guitar shredding that would eventually evolve into Hard Rock and Metal, Pop-rock focused on using the same principles to produce a softer, gentler style of music, one that would eventually go on to appeal to even the most hardened metalhead - and inspire Tejas to establish his group - years later. <\/p>
As our interview draws to a close, I ask Tejas what his advice to students today would be, especially students who are jamming out of rented jam rooms and their rooftop houses in hopes of making it big one day, \"One has to understand that one has to find their own voice to tell a story. I mean, sure, there are artists who have written songs about a particular issue and poured their heart and soul into singing and performing it, but that is their voice, and someone walking this road has to realise that it is their voice that matters,\" Tejas replies earnestly, after pondering the question for a while, \"There's always going to be other artists, what matters is what you can do, what your voice can do.\" <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508952661263","data":"59f0cfede0c6e"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508952663080","data":"
\"If there is one thing I've learned from the various gigs around the country, it is gauging the mood of the crowd and how to keep them engaged. I'm not sure if this can be taught, I wish it could be,\" Tejas laughs as he concludes with his final statement, \"You find that some of your work really connects with people, you have folks coming up to you and saying they identify with your songs, then there are gigs where you are demotivated. The important thing to remember from all of that is that you learn and you move on, as simple as that.\" <\/p>
I fully intend on inviting the person who very boldly declared that the Indie music scene in India was dead and buried along with me to Tejas's gig on Friday evening. After spending the last few hours listening to Make It Happen on repeat and judging by the many fantastic musicians I've had the opportunity to meet over the course of this year, I'm fairly confident that the future of the Indie music scene is in good hands. <\/p>
You can check out Tejas's facebook page by <\/i>clicking here<\/i><\/a>, don't forget to scroll down and check out the latest album on YouTube! You can also buy his music from his website by <\/i>clicking here. <\/i><\/a><\/p>"},{"type":"youtube","id":"vid-url-1508954072563","data":"XO6STH6nezM"}]
I have an older brother who is about 10 years older than me (yes, make your you are an accident jokes now) and he grew up lapped up in the culture of the 80s when India opened the floodgates to its economy in the year 1991. From the corny yet fun Masters of the Universe cartoons on TV (in Hindi no less) to cousins from America bringing with them Dungeons and Dragons, a table top pen and paper based RPG that kickstarted my love-affair with Role Playing Games and board-games which I keep to this day. While America itself had moved on to the 90s with its grunge music and pulling itself out of a the drug induced shock culture of the 80s, India was finding itself in a resurgence of culture imported from the west, with movies like Star Wars and Ghostbusters finding brand new fans, and pop-culture including the incredibly famous Seinfeld as everyone's goto choice for a Situational Comedy TV show. <\/p>
Thus, I was also immersed in this culture as I was growing up. My brother had moved on to listening to Nirvana and brooding in his room, locked up all day and my parents had managed to liberate all the toys and games he had for my perusal, much to his chagrin, I imagine. I experienced, first hand, the marvels of the 80s, complete with comic books and my own Dungeons and Dragons team, all of us interested in science and playing RPGs, not to mention computer games. Those were incredible days. <\/p>
So when a TV show that celebrates everything about this culture with the backdrop of a horror story inspired directly from the horror movies released in the 70s and 80s, it was like going back to being a child all over again. This was Stranger Things, a TV show nobody expected to surprise them, but everyone watched all episodes in a single day. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508937506205","data":"59f0921ecb0e4"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508937509029","data":"
Set in a small sleepy town in America, Stranger Things is about strange things, as the title might tell you. It follows a bunch of young kids barely out of their single digit ages and on the cusp of becoming teenagers banding together to find their missing friend, who has been dragged to another dimension by a creature nobody understands. This, complimented by excellent performances from actors like David Harbour, who plays the town sheriff and 90s heart throb and darling of Hollywood Winona Ryder playing Will's mother, the boy who goes missing. <\/p>
I don't want to make this a review of Stranger Things, that is not what this is here to talk about. This piece is being written to celebrate what Stranger Things has achieved, and by extension, what the cast and crew of the show, helmed by The Duffer Brothers, has managed to pull off in 2016: They took us back in time, effortlessly at that, with camera magic at 24 frames per second. <\/p>
For it is indeed magic, how does one make a TV show that is so seeped in 80s nostalgia in 2016? How did the child actors acquaint themselves with the life and times of people that were born years before they were even alive? In fact, some of the child actor's parents themselves were kids in the time period this show is set in! <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508937789515","data":"59f09278d9ae7"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508937791382","data":"
With Stranger Things Season 2 releasing tomorrow, October 27, here is my love letter to the show, a show that not only combines the best of the 80s, but also brings to us excellent performances by the cast, frames and cinematography that can give even the best directors a run for their money (except David Fincher, of course, have you watched Mindhunter lately?) and managed to become a cultural phenomenon the very same day it is released? Usually, as is the case with many big budget Hollywood movies and TV shows, the child actors are not chosen for their acting ability but for how they look and if they fit the role. As such, many times, a lot of child actors simply disappear from the show business before they hit their prime. But the kids of Stranger Things not only look absolutely right for their parts, they are excellent at their performances. Millie Bobbie Brown's performance as Eleven is, perhaps, the best child actor performance I've seen in a long time. The only one that comes close, even surpasses her ability at times, is Dafne Keen who played X-23 in Logan, the final Wolverine movie. <\/p>
If you have a Netflix account, do yourself a favour and watch Stranger Things Season 1 today in preparation for Season 2. I can guarantee that you will not regret this. <\/p>"}]
<\/b><\/i>\"Stand up against the wrong happening around you\" his words keep nagging behind my mind. If only I hadn\u2019t been dependent on someone my life today would\u2019ve been different. It\u2019s been 4 years I\u2019m married to this devil and till date, I haven\u2019t gathered up enough courage to punch him down. Just as I was about to put the curry in the bowl I felt a tug on the corner of my shirt, my eyes then met a pair of black eyes, Zara, my daughter \u201cMommy grandmother and daddy are very angry. They\u2019re asking you to bring in food as soon as possible\u201d she said picking up the plates and left. My heart clenched looking at her. \u2018Oh God, I wish I could give my daughter a better life than this\u2019 I silently prayed. I had to serve them before they lash out at me again, so I pushed away from the thoughts and was on my way to the dining area. My body froze just as I heard a tight slap and saw my angel on the floor. \u201cShe is teaching you that, right? How dare you back answer me\u201d He barked. <\/p>
Fear and anger came rushing down in my veins. Fear because he\u2019ll punish me again and angry because he hurt my daughter for no reason.<\/p>
Nevertheless, I had to protect her. Gathering all my leftover courage I said in a low yet stern voice \u201cKelvin, don\u2019t hit her. She didn\u2019t do anything wrong. Hit me as much as you want but please don\u2019t do anything to her\u201d. Just as those escaped my lips, I heard my mother in law\u2019s humourless laugh while she said: \u201cYou and your daughter are the faults in our lives\u201d. \u201cThen why don\u2019t you just leave me?\u201d I politely asked. Both of them exchanged glances then she said \u201cI need a housemaid\u201d followed by him \u201cand I don\u2019t live here so I have to keep her with a maid who wouldn\u2019t run away and that is the only reason we won\u2019t let you go\u201d with that he violently caught hold of my wrist and led me to the hell to endure the torture. I didn\u2019t fail to look back at my horrified daughter and show her a thumbs up saying \u201cMomma is fine\u201d. <\/p>
\u201cMomma?\u201d I heard Zara sneak in through the curtain. Despite the pain I was drenched in, I sat up just to make her feel better. \u201cCome in sweetheart\u201d my voice came out broken. \u201cI brought you a glass of water mommy,\u201d she said handing me the glass. Her eyes glistening with tears yet she didn\u2019t let them come out. I slowly gulped down the water and kissed her cheek. \u201cMomma is all good Zara, don\u2019t worry\u201d I forced a smile. She was just looking down at her laps. Taking my hand in hers, she lifted the sleeve of my shirt only to see the fresh belt marks \u201cAfter all this, you say you\u2019re fine mommy? You are a liar\u201d she said. I felt a pang of pain rush inside me. Not because she said I was a liar but because she had to go through all this pain because of me. Nevertheless, I had to comfort her. \u201cNo honey, this is just a little price I have to pay, to live here\u201d \u201cWe can go far away from here mommy?\u201d she whispered expecting I would consider her idea. \u2018Oh, how I wish I can take you somewhere else to a better place than this\u2019 I had nothing to answer her, I just kissed her forehead and let my chin rest on it.<\/p>
Sensing that I had no intentions to answer her, she stood up angrily and yelled \u201cSee, you always ignore my question. You can run away if you want but I don\u2019t understand why do you like to be tortured like this. Anyways, I just came here to tell you that I heard dad and grandmother talking that dad\u2019s flight is tomorrow morning but he said he\u2019ll leave today from home and stay the night in some hotel\u201d with that she just exited the room angrily. I agree her anger is genuine but how will I ever tell her how helpless I am? No one to stand up with. Even after being a qualified engineer, even after working as an assistant professor for a year, even after having tons of brothers and sister, I stand completely helpless. Just because I wanted to give all my time to my new family I left the job, and this torture is what I get in return. My father, my hero died two years before I got married. My mother, brothers, and sisters say I have to adjust here just because they got me married to this devil, and I have to serve them till my last breath. I can not ask for a divorce because I need a home to live and I won\u2019t get a job anywhere because it has been years I studied and I don\u2019t remember anything. Now I'm abused by only one devil, and after divorce, I'd be abused by the whole society. Not only me but Zara too be a victim of this. When I ask my family like as in my real family they say I can not live with them just because I don\u2019t belong to them anymore and that my daughter would have to face the world without a father. Even though they\u2019re well aware of the fact that she is a result of marital rape.It was then I realized how my family who raised me all along just disowned me within a day.<\/p>
If only I had stood up for myself before it was too late. If only I could stop the beast before allowing him to change my life. If only I had acted upon the words dad told me before dying \u201cStand up against the wrong happening to you\u201d, my life would\u2019ve been different today. <\/p>
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The story of every other girl in India which remains behind the closed doors.<\/i><\/p>
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When you are alone in the house and there's no Swiggy to deliver delicious food to you but you have all the resources you need to whip yourself one up, and you still complain about there being no food in the house and rolling around on your bed, that is squarely nobody else's but your own fault. <\/p>
I realised this one fine day when I was left all alone in the house and had no money to eat but the fridge and the kitchen was stocked to the brim with everything I needed to make whatever I wanted. So I decided to make myself some food, I remember making Tomato Dal and Rice, and when I ate it, I swore to learn how to cook. <\/p>
Because it was horrendous. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508847960166","data":"59f073ca8b653"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508847962114","data":"
I remember Robert Downey Jr. talking about how he turned his life around after he ate a burger so bad, he stopped and thought just what exactly he was doing with his life. As the story goes, Downey Jr. was struggling with drug abuse for years, so much so that it was affecting his professional career, with directors and casting agents simply refusing to work with him. So one day he took a drive in his open top car - he was already a famous movie star by then - and not knowing what to do and high on drugs, he stopped at a Burger King and ordered a burger. <\/p>
Downey Jr. narrates this story and says that the burger he ate was so terrible, he stopped midway and thought to himself just what he was doing with his own life, he examined his life up until that point and decided that he would never use drugs again. He threw away the drugs he was carrying into the ocean and went home and into rehab. <\/p>
Eating the food I cooked was my personal Robert Downey Jr. moment. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508929887021","data":"59f074b2b762a"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508929889337","data":"
So after that moment, I've dedicated at least an hour a day to learn how to cook and, if I may be allowed this humble brag, become somewhat of a decent cook. When your friends start asking you for your recipes and make requests for some of your dishes, you know you're doing good. <\/p>
Coming to the topic at hand, it doesn't matter if you can or cannot cook delicious food, what matters is that you can cook food that can sustain you. Don't put yourself on Survival mode when you have the time and resources to cook yourself a half decent meal, one that you can eat yourself and push on. <\/p>
Students of today will eventually become working professionals, expecting someone to do your cooking for you is an arrogant thought that you must expunge from your mind, if you can't cook your own food, there is no way for you to complain about why there isn't any when you are privileged enough to afford the resources and often the time required. With students eventually moving to different cities for their careers, it is extremely important that you teach yourself this essential life skill. <\/p>
Bon Appetite! <\/p>"}]
In a world full of chaos, finding a semblance of order is a rarity. When such an opportunity\npresents itself, it is hard not to grab hold of it with both hands. Therefore, when the world\u2019s\nnations get to be a part of a common assembly where each one\u2019s voice can be heard, one\ncan expect a huge turnout. This is exactly what the United Nations has achieved since its\ninception. In order to create a wider understanding of the fundamental principles behind\nthe functioning of the UN, the concept of an MUN was born \u2013 to simulate the processes of\nthe actual world and look for solutions to defeat the problems that plague the world today. <\/p>"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508917118535","data":"
Following the yearly tradition of simulating a conference that brings the best minds\ntogether, BITSMUN \u201917 kicked off with nearly 300 delegates from various parts of the\ncountry. Simulating five committees over three days, the conference looked set to create a\nbenchmark for further editions. Months of preparation and organization finally came to the\nforefront as the three days went without any major hiccups. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508922742786","data":"59f055f27f13e"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508917140458","data":"
With scintillating debate, incessant lobbying and penetrating deliberation on some of the\nworld\u2019s foremost issues such as LGBT rights, the Korean War, peacekeeping missions and\nthe Syrian and the Crimean crises, the MUN proved to be a shining beacon of intellect\nchanneled into productivity. As the conference reached its end, the delegates were\nsatisfied with their three days\u2019 worth of work, and there was a huge sense of anticipation in\nthe closing ceremony hall as the prizes were announced. <\/p>
Overall, it was an enlightening conference to say the least, and as the Secretary-General\ndeclared the conference closed, one is reminded of Jacqueline Winspear\u2019s words \u2013\n\u201cMemories are links in a golden chain that bind us until we meet again.\u201d <\/i><\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508922761385","data":"59f0564f00094"}]
About the Event:<\/b><\/p>
PyBITS is the two day python conference for students conducted by BITS Pilani Hyderabad Campus and was started last year with the support of Python Software Foundation and this year we are growing bigger with the support of HydPy as well. The aim of the conference is to bring the Python Student Community together and give them a platform to learn, explore and network.<\/p>
As a part of PyBITS we are having the conference on 28th October and workshops on 29th October. <\/p>"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508836807946","data":"
Why?<\/b><\/p>
Benefits of attending:<\/b><\/p>
PyBITS is targeted to all students who are python enthusiasts. <\/p>
1. Get the opportunity to learn from professionals and get motivated to explore opportunities in python. <\/p>
2. Network with python developers in India and discuss about projects and workshops. <\/p>
If you are new to python you can attend the basic python workshop to give yourself a kickstart and if you already know the language you can get yourself acquainted with flask and scrapy frameworks. <\/p>
School students can come for the basic python workshop for free and give a start to their programming journey. <\/p>"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508838272125","data":"
If you are looking for accommodation, click here<\/a><\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508918370408","data":"59f044b760f81"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508918377521","data":"59f044be03af7"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508918386316","data":"59f044c6ae252"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508918257065","data":""}]
Life is an unsettling period, with many physical, emotional, psychological and social changes that accompany us.<\/p>
Unrealistic expectations can create a cogent sense of rejection and can lead us to disillusionment. Many young ones feel that life not fair enough and frazzled up when things go wrong at school, college or at home. The inimical <\/span>behaviour of parents and <\/span>peers potentiates ones emotional distress. Dealing with pressures like making a <\/span>new set of friends, which is the centre to this generation's self-esteem and also family's persuasion to get a job and their lack of understanding can result in serious depression. Despite everyone's best effort, most of us become depressed. <\/span><\/p>Depression is a disease of Loneliness. Many depressives lack emotional support because it devitalizes them and immures the victim, making it hard for them to speak up. This issue calls for prompt, appropriate treatment. Pills do not fix the problem completely, though it may incite the stability to open up. So, psychotherapy like Cognitive-behavioral therapy and problem-solving therapy play a major role in helping the person suffering from clinical depression.<\/p>\nHope the readers have liked it.Do share this article among your colleagues.<\/p>\nTHANK YOU :)<\/p>\n"}]
Depression is a disease of Loneliness. Many depressives lack emotional support because it devitalizes them and immures the victim, making it hard for them to speak up. This issue calls for prompt, appropriate treatment. Pills do not fix the problem completely, though it may incite the stability to open up. So, psychotherapy like Cognitive-behavioral therapy and problem-solving therapy play a major role in helping the person suffering from clinical depression.<\/p>\n
Hope the readers have liked it.Do share this article among your colleagues.<\/p>\n
THANK YOU :)<\/p>\n"}]
Hack2Innovate is a national hackathon that occurs over 24 hours in 7 cities around the country. Organised by T Hub in association with partners, helps handpick the best Deep-Tech innovators from each city and showcase them at T-Day - T-Hub\u2019s prestigious annual flagship event bringing together the startup ecosystem enablers such as noted investors, government officials, academia, influencers, mentors, media, and startups.<\/p>"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508835712005","data":"
Deep-Tech is the most preferred bet of technology, which records a whopping 60% growth opportunity YoY in today\u2019s businesses. New India is on the cusp of a major technological revolution with an unprecedented opportunity to deliver next-gen solutions, carving a new landscape and Man-Machine equation. These opportunities are often created in the areas of enormous impact, such as medicine, agtech, clean tech, advanced manufacturing, big data or AI, and robotics. And they are the businesses and technologies that help create the industries and jobs of our future \u2013 on a global stage. <\/p>"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508835727091","data":"
With giants like NVIDIA Deep Learning Institute, Microsoft, Samsung, PwC and more, participants will have access to knowledge from top notch experts in fields like AI, Deep Learning, Machine Learning, Computer Vision, Cognitive and Natural Language Processing. Teams will be invited to technology building and\/or Deep-Tech sourcing opportunity with Samsung and will get an opportunity to work hands on with PwC Innovation Team. <\/p>
Winner(s) shall get access to all events and networking sessions which are led and organized by T-Hub on a first-come and subject to availability of seats and avail credits of T-Hub\u2019s select list of service providers, in addition to prize money worth up to 10 Lakhs INR and GeForce GTX 1080 Ti Graphics Cards.<\/p>"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508836011117","data":"
stuMagz is proud to be the student outreach partner for this prestigious event and if you want to learn from the best in these technologies, be a part of the event by clicking here<\/a>. <\/p>"}]
There is a certain meditative pleasure in travelling alone to a place you've never been before. It is fraught with risk, for one, but it is also exciting, adrenaline pumping thrilling, all of that in the multiples if you're a woman who's traveling solo. <\/p>
I still have no idea how my parents not only agreed to let me travel on my own, but even actively encouraged me to do so. My father, being in the army, even encouraged me to go check out the remotest places in the country, places where only the army has reached. But I decided that I would rather go to Shillong, partly because Meghalaya is beautiful without a doubt, and partly because Steve Vai is performing at NH7 Weekender. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508830050359","data":"59eeee438e500"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508830051907","data":"
Pictured above: This is what peak perfection looks like<\/i><\/p>
I feel there is an aura of mystery and adventure around travelling solo that is, as it the case with anything that gains some modicum of popularity, grossly misrepresented. Travelling solo is perceived by people to be some kind of soul-searching exercise which will solve all your life's problems, but the truth is that nothing of the sort happens. The loneliness of the road is real, it is melancholic and it will freeze you in your tracks as you contemplate your life and your mind automatically takes you to places you wish it didn't go, memories it didn't access. <\/p>
In that way, travelling solo is a fantastic experience. The long periods of solitude allow you to truly introspect all issues in your life because your mind keeps wandering, but the actual solution to this issue is something which will only come to you if you are ready for them. Soul-searching, yes, life changing, no, not until you want it yourself. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508830271853","data":"59eeee5f00e77"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508830273988","data":"
Travelling solo as a woman is, in itself, a tremendous challenge in this country. I admire my fellow sisters who think this country is safe enough to travel, but I would rather be safe than sorry. To this end, I took a number of precautions that I do not regret having done, I was indeed accosted by a few men I did not want to encourage, and I defended myself sufficiently, enough to ensure nothing untoward happened, except the fact that patriarchy still exists and men like that still think women, all women, owe them sex just for existing. <\/p>
But that is an issue that I will write about at length, for now, let us conclude with the fact that unless you confront yourself with your own faults, there is nothing on this planet that will help you. If you're a believer, not even God can help you if you're blind to your own faults. So, before you travel solo, make a pact with yourself, a pact that says if you confront your own personal issues on the trip, you will face it head on and not make excuses. <\/p>
Doing that, truly doing that, will change your life. I guarantee it. <\/p>
Here's a Steve Vai song as a thank you gift for reading this. <\/p>"},{"type":"youtube","id":"vid-url-1508830606605","data":"9IrWyZ0KZuk"}]
Look, I get it, Mondays suck, Tuesdays are even worse, Wednesdays are the worst. It is right in the middle of the week, the weekend is as far away as the last time you had some fun, which was the last weekend. If you have any video games, movies or TV shows coming out, you'll have to wait till Friday, which is one full extra day in between. Wednesdays, then, become the worst part of the week in a week you're already detesting because you have things to do because otherwise you will not survive. <\/p>
Sounds like you? It sure does sound like me. I'll be honest, with Wolfenstien II: The New Colossus, Stranger Things and Assassin's Creed: Origins all releasing on the same day, it has got me excited but it is still one full day away and that is so incredibly annoying, I cannot even begin to tell you how much I wish I could put myself to sleep and wake up automatically on time, you know, like how they do it in Fallout and Skyrim, and also Witcher. But since that is in-game and fictional, we're stuck with the reality of our situation: having to deal with your own animosity towards the week you're going through. <\/p>
As fancy as it is to hope that we had super powers or could sleep forever, it is up to us to turn our week from Kryptonite to something that energises us. It also dramatically improves your performance at work or in college. So how does one do it?<\/p>
1. Plan your week every Sunday evening: <\/b><\/p>
No, this is not a joke, I'm being quite serious. Instead of sulking around the house and cursing the inevitable onslaught of Monday on all your free time, sit down, grab a pen and paper (or use Evernote, that is a great option) and plan your week starting Monday morning. Make sure you give yourself appropriate time to unwind and promise to yourself that you will stay focused and finish tasks according to your planner. Which brings us to point number 2. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508828200501","data":"59eee98735a70"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508828202110","data":"
2. Focus on what is important: <\/b> <\/p>
No, that funny edgy meme you just got on WhatsApp doesn't need your immediate attention, neither do you need to look at it and laugh before you type 'nice meme'. When you're at your workplace or your college, focus on the task at hand even if its killing your brain cells with the tremendous amount of soporific powers it just developed. In this day and age of internet and social media, our attention spans have been reduced to ridiculous amounts. There is an entire generation of children growing up with attention spans so horrendous, I fear they'll ever pick up a book to read, but that is a problem for another time. For now, keep your focus, it may become a privilege tomorrow. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508828389036","data":"59eee99b0de28"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508828391004","data":"
3. Sweat a bit: <\/b> <\/p>
Don't be just confined to a small cubicle or a class room, wake up early, go for a run, cycle, hit the gym, make the right choices. The amount of positive impact a routine like this can have on your week and by extension your entire life is heavily underreported. A daily morning (or evening if you're a gym rat and are trying to bulk up) workout routine can tremendously improve any week you're having. Personally attest to that fact. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508828769221","data":"59eee9b16ceaa"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508828771310","data":"
4. Do something positive: <\/b> <\/p>
Read about social classes, understand social issues, support the right causes, lend a helping hand to those who need help, even when you get nothing in return. Expect nothing from anyone else but be willing to lend a hand when needed. Be excellent to the people around you, it will help. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508828836885","data":"59eee9c35ab14"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1508828839617","data":"
5. Be The Change you want to see: <\/b> <\/p>
Rome was certainly not built in a day, first there was Romulus and the whole wolf thing, that was a great story. But I'm going off track, the point here is that you can start not hating your week by starting to change how you see life itself. I know you can love your life and hate yourself, which leads to even more negativity, but the power to change this is in your hands, and I believe in you. <\/p>
Go get em! <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1508829255551","data":"59eee9db4b149"}]
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