What are you really afraid of? What is your biggest fear ? Maybe it could be a ghost . In some cases it could be " fear of loosing people" and there are many more countless fears like that. In fact there are many and many more which you don't even consider. 

 You may have this perfect life with little imperfections attached. Every time you wear a dress or every time you do your hair there's one thing that always seems to bother you. Does this dress look good on me or is the color too bright? Do I look okay in this hairstyles? So immediately you click a picture of your and send it to your friends for their opinions. This is what girls do, at least most of them do. I do too. I started to wonder- Why other people's opinion matter to us that much? Of course  there is one logic that -'they can see you and  you can't see yourself' . Well, hello! that's why "Mirrors" were invented.

 It is not that easy as it sounds, is it? Even though we look at ourselves in the mirror and we happen to like the way we look, we still stay there and look for flaws.  Maybe that explains why girls take a lot of time to get ready. But why are we doing this ? Why are we so scared to get out there with out finding faults in our own selves. It's the people, isn't it? It's because their opinions so freaking matter to us. Because we are so scared and afraid of being judged by them. Our biggest fear is not a ghost it's the opinions of other people. People will never stop having opinions. It doesn't mean that you stop getting out. 

 Why do they even judge you? Maybe because they hate you and can't stand you or Probably maybe because they get intimidated by you. It's just one of their ways to put you down and make themselves feel better. They have all authority to form their own opinions and say whatever they want. You can't stop them. What really matters is how you handle it. 

Are you going to let it effect you or will you let it go?      

 To be continued.....