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Reasons are many, but pain is the same. Mutual decision, being dumped, or worse, having to dump someone. Break-up comes in all variants. Some have the take-it-easy attitude and smartly move on, but others are stuck at the point for too long, losing precious time and health. Elders too are devastated seeing their children go through so much. Instead of hurting so many others for one person, let's see how we can bring in a paradigm shift.

1. This world is too large. There are 6 billions of people. If we lost one, we still have atleast a billion options. Take it positively. 

2. Perhaps we lost a great, perfect companion. But things could have been worse if a break up happened after more attachment? All the worse things happen for the best. 

3. People seem perfect at that given moment, but there is nothing called perfection in life. Familiarity will definitely lessen the fondness we have for a person. 

4. Don't try for a rebound if it is a nasty break up. Usually a person walking out of a relationship leaves a permanent gap. A rebound makes things worse for many. 

5. The most important tip for handling any relation is below.

" The attachment between two people should be balanced. Try to keep your emotions limited to the other person's interest in you. This will save you from heartache in the future."

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6. Self-Respect is the most important thing in life.This world will treat you exactly the way you treat yourself. So don't ever be tempted to love someone more than the level of respect and love you have for yourself. 

7. However exotic the person is, however rosy everything seems to be, never go crazy, worship or admire someone who said No to you. Instead, build your own exotic life. 

8. After a year, this issue will not have any importance in your life. After a decade, you are going to laugh about this. What is the point in wasting tears now? 

9. Never feel guilty. Love happens. We meet wonderful people sometimes, and just can't help it. It's ok. But remember the lessons forever. 

10. Talking about it to many people will never heal. It will make the memories powerful nd healing will take longer.

11 Don't hate him or her, try to take revenge or harm yourself. It is destructive. You two are the most wonderful people, who could not be right together. It is as simple as that. It was nobody's fault. Look ahead with hope and look at the past with gratitude. Life is like that. There is no answer  to "Why?" all the times.

Love or matters of the heart constitute only a part of our life. Work, family, friends, hobbies, all are important too. Build your life around multiple solid foundations than an unpredictable emotion.

  Similarly, a place of living, a job, an educational qualification, or a person cannot determine, or alter the course of our life. Be involved in all the aspects of life, but don't give anything too much power. If it's a hierarchy, make sure you are on the top. Always adore yourself so much that others' absence will not bother  you.

  Stay happy, always!