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I've always loved self-depreciating humour. Not only does it serve as an excellent cover for one's insecurities, it also is a fantastic way of laughing at yourself and learning to take things in your stride, so that you may pick yourself up and try again. Like, if by some miracle I manage to do something great with my life and have to pen an autobiography, that is how I'd want mine to be, self-depreciating, humorous and more importantly, not a guidebook for some MBA student to read my life story and go, 'Ah yes, this makes perfect sense, this is exactly what I'll do', while completely ignoring the fact that the only reason I would hypothetically highlight something and make fun of it is to say 'Don't do this, you dolts!' <\/p>
Now that we've gone off on this tangent, the reason we're here is that Eric Newby has inspired me. It isn't every day that you come across a book you like so much that you decide to learn how to write like how the author writes, yet as you flip through the pages of A Short Walk In The Hindu Kush, you cannot help but laugh at how the story is told. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512365573052","data":"5a2512b1eaa98"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512365575070","data":"
A Short Walk In The Hindu Kush is considered one of the best books about mountaineering ever written. The twist in the story is that Newby was a newbie when he wrote this book. He had never climbed a mountain before in his life, picked a completely random mountain in Afghanistan to climb and then went on to write a hilarious account of his journey that soon became legend. I only discovered this book due to my recent obsession with mountains, looking up accounts of mountain ascents to read. <\/p>
Published in 1956, the book baffled critics and seasoned mountaineers alike because of how hilarious it was and went on to baffle younger mountaineers a generation and generations later because it wasn't easy to comprehend that a man with no experience of climbing wrote such a hilariously accurate account of what goes down when you're looking up at the peak. But I think I have an answer to this and I'm quite sure that there are plenty of others who arrive at similar conclusions once they finish reading the book. <\/p>
It's because Newby is, to put it mildly, extremely relatable. Climbing a mountain is something a vast majority of us will never do in our entire lives but along comes a guy from England, all posh and stuff, saying he will conquer an obscure peak in Afghanistan for no reason except for the fact that it hadn't been done yet. He observes the climbing process like how a normal person would and hilarity ensues. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512378935003","data":"5a2512d3005ce"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512365748370","data":"
A Short Walk In The Hindu Kush is one part buddy comedy, with Newby and his Diplomat friend Hugh Carless - who, despite his name, was a very meticulous person - attempting to take on the Mir Samir, the then unconquered peak in the ranges of the Hindu Kush. It is one part thriller, with Newby and Carless's thrills to get to the mountain in the first place but at the end of the day, it is an all-around adventure novel that will leave you roaring for more. <\/p>
As for whether the pair made their climb or not, I'd much rather you read it and found out, trust me when I say this, it is definitely one of the best books you'll ever read. Click here to buy! <\/a><\/p>"}]
The Hyderabad International Auto Show 2017 is here and with it, it brings to Hyderabad some of the best automobiles in the world! Catch a glimpse of these super vehicles and more till Monday!<\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512206834234","data":"5a22729ec8f83"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512206879921","data":"5a2272aad882f"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512206891728","data":"5a2272b5ead4c"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512206940633","data":"5a2272e9cd3f6"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512206953728","data":"5a2272f4a07f1"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512206966209","data":"5a2273019245a"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512206977706","data":"5a22730c57166"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512206989113","data":"5a227316c06cf"}]
The Great Entrepreneurship Stories a.k.a the Real GES as the organizers like to call it, happened on the last day of November at the Mustang Lounge Bar starting 7:30 PM. It was a meetup where like-minded people could come up and share their stories, rather experiences that they went through to evolve as an entrepreneur.\nGreeted with a wide smile as I walk through the stairs, my registration was verified, and I walked in to meet a rather wide spectrum of audience. It was my first event in this genre and I didn\u2019t really know what to expect from the event. To my content, I found people from all walks of life covering a very wide spectrum. The event started off with the MakeSense networking session by Anna Moran, which is a great initiative working towards many goals and is trying to make their presence be felt in Hyderabad. Anna Moran talked a little about the MakeSense campaigns that they are conducting and invited us to be a part of the noble venture if it interests us.<\/p>"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512141605262","data":"
Since this event had a lot of interesting talks and it is difficult to list our each of them, let me take the liberty to list out a few that really got me in, I\u2019ll start with Sid, the \u201cDoodh Wala\u201d. Well, that\u2019s exactly how he started and that drew our attention as we all were awestruck by how a Doodh Wala came up to talk about his entrepreneurship story on the dais! He talked about a small incident which was an interaction with whom he taught was his customer. He talked about how you realize an entirely new perspective when you are on the receiving end of life, he explained how he evolved as a more considerate person and is more forgiving after being an entrepreneur and handling the customer grievances himself. Sid runs a successful farm called Sid\u2019s Farm that delivers healthy milk to about 6000 doorsteps each day! <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512141611877","data":"5a2173b068b7e"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512141634619","data":"
Then came Sanjeev Reddy, the CTO & Co-founder of ThinkProxi which is an IoT based start-up looking at localizing the best services and offers for global users. It was a rather interesting listen to what Sanjeev had to say as he talked about his life and how he kept looking for opportunities and finally found the ones he needed. ThinkProxi helps local restaurants and other destinations attract new customers and also offer better value for existing customers by implementing his \u201cBeacons\u201d which transmit and communicate with the visitors of the restraint to give them offers and deals to mention a few. This technology has been implemented in at least 6 famous museums in the United States of America of which the Elvis Presley museum is one of the most notable ones. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512141682866","data":"5a2173f75302e"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512141690592","data":"
We then had a talk session by Neha Swain who is the Co-founder of Rubaroo which is a Hyderabad based start-up looking at the more unconventional ways of learning and teaching. The team of Rubaroo wishes to improvise the existing techniques by aiding the conventional techniques with workshops, camps, internships and film-screenings to mention a few. Neha, who recently fulfilled her dream of staying un-married till 30 and recently found her partner in a young, broad-minded man who chose to break the gender stereotype and agreed to relocate to Hyderabad to make her dreams realized. Neha talks about the struggles of a Woman entrepreneur as she evolves herself into an entrepreneur which causes more hindrance to her personal life than it should. She now engages with several young aspiring woman entrepreneurs and tries to encourage and guide them in their walk so that they don\u2019t have to face the difficulties that she did. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512141730501","data":"5a21742a25425"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512141747085","data":"
Coming to Raj N Janagam, he was one of the most cheerful people in the entire crowd and had something to share that people would bother listening. Raj N Janagam tried to solve the issue that he had faced as a student while traveling from the station to his college during his early days In Mumbai. He solved this issue by starting his own service where the need was and put up several cycles at the Station and at his college that the student could make use of to reduce the commute struggle. However, as the service grew, and the Government realized the potential of such service, they wanted a share of it and had to intervene. Understanding that it was the right way to go, Raj went ahead with the formalities and won the bid for the contract only to encounter yet another hurdle. He was being drawn into something that he hated the most, corruption! Back during the days of Anna Hazare\u2019s fight against corruption, Raj was demanded a sum of 35Lakh rupees, all in black only to get the permission to continue with his Social Entrepreneurship. Understanding that he\u2019s too young and na\u00efve to get involved in corruption just yet, he chose to pass the chance and the rest is history! <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512141761956","data":"5a21745c815e1"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512141797604","data":"
Midway through the session Santosh Mohan Veeranki, the Founder of Tale Tellers Troupe India, the organizers of this event came by. He was a cheerful person and decided to break the ice by starting off the event in his way with a \u201cStarting Game\u201d wherein you look right into the eyes of the person right in front of you and totally get involved, understand their beauty, realize the need and interact with each other. Post this interaction he continued to tell a little about the reason behind the TTTI and how it started. The team of TTTI has one goal, to reduce the stage fear among people and give them a chance to talk about something that they know, something that they wish to share with the world, some memories that they can rejoice at a later point.<\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512141824853","data":"5a21748582a23"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512141840072","data":"
The last speaker of the night was Robin Goldberg who is working on a social initiative and hopes to revolutionize the education sector into a more modern and accepting one. She has a group of 60 Students from across the world who will be joining her in the coming few weeks. She, in collaboration with several others including Santosh, wish to harvest their skill-set in a way that could benefit the young students. She invited all the interested attendees to the event to join her in the mission to change the way the world learns and Santosh took over with the ending note.<\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512141852834","data":"5a2174ed78757"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512141960756","data":"
By the end of the event, one thing I was sure about was the worth of it and was glad I could make it to the event. Not only were the stories of each speaker motivational, but it also made me understand that failure is an essential part of each successful entrepreneur. The event also helped boost my confidence and I feel more sanguine approaching unknown people which is a big bonus! <\/p>"}]
INDIA'S Manushi Chhillar has won the coveted miss world 2017 pageant,16years after Priyanka Chopra win the title in 2000.Manushi Chhillar, a medical student, was crowned Miss world at a glitzy event in a Chinese resort on Saturday, making India country the joint most successful in the beauty pageant's history.Chhillar is the sixth India winner of the long-running contest, following in the footstep of Bollywood actresses Priyanka Chopra and Aishwarya Rai.Aishwarya had bagged the title in 1994, followed by Diana Haydon in 1997, Yukta Mookhey in 1999 and Priyanka in 2000, the last for India.After a long gap, India has won Miss world. It is great privilege and honour. Manushi Chhillar is great inspiration for women around the world.I hope Everyone has to set up a goal in their life and should strive hard to achieve the goal in spite all the difficulties. It is proved that deserving your goal is not hard when you strive hard for it<\/u> by many great people like APJ Abdul Kalam, Geetha Phogat (gold medalist in Wrestling), and now Manushi Chhillar.From these great people we came to know that if we are interested in something like painting, dance ,games etc it is achieved how hard the goal may be it is very sweet way to achieve.<\/p>\n
Don't give up your Failure<\/p>\n"}]
Dr. Rajendra Prasad was a lawyer extraordinarie <\/p>
On this day, in 1883, Dr. Rajendra Prasad was born, he would go on to become an excellent Lawyer and a statesman par excellence, and would later go on to be appointed as India's very first President. His birthday, December 3rd, is celebrated as Lawyer's Day, keeping in mind his extraordinary achievements. <\/p>
Here's what you need to know about him. <\/p>
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Rajendra Prasad joined the Indian National Congress in 1911 and became a leader of the Bihar and Odisha region<\/p>
As a child, Rajendra Prasad was taught by a Maulavi (Muslim scholar), as his father wanted him to learn the Persian language, Hindi and arithmetic<\/p>
He used to stay at the Eden Hindu Hostel in Calcutta during his educational years at the University of Calcutta as a postgraduate student of Economics<\/p>
Prasad played a major role in forming the Bihari Students Conference in the year 1906 at the hall of Patna College<\/p>
He served as the president of the Constituent Assembly that drafted the first constitution of the Republic of India, which lasted from 1948 to 1950 <\/p>
He also became the first Minister of Food and Agriculture in 1946 in the interim national government<\/p>
The British governance had jailed Prasad many times. He was arrested for his support in the Salt Satyagraha Movement of 1931 and the Quit India Movement of 1942<\/p>
As the President of India, Prasad quit the Congress and set up new guidelines for the parliamentarians that are still followed<\/p>
He was unanimously elected as the President of India at the last session of the Constituent Assembly of the interim government<\/p>
In January 1934, Bihar was hit by a devastating earthquake. The British authorities had to free Prasad from jail so that he could lead the relief services in the state. A year later, when another earthquake hit Quetta (now in Pakistan), Prasad was again selected as the President of the Quetta Earthquake Relief Committee.<\/p>
Such is the contributions of this eminent man. <\/p>"}]
From one of the real life stories I have gone through,A girl named Jenny found love in her best friend during her schooling without her notice.They used to talk to \n\neach other for a long time.Both used to have a strange feeling which is beyond friendship.As that feeling was giving pleasure to them,they did not tried to figure it out what name should \n\nbe given to that feeling. <\/p>
As their schooling was about to complete and they don't have any idea where their graduation is going to take place.As jenny was very much worried about this,he \n\nused to say that,'we owe a lot to each other,so we will be back together soon'.These lines gave her a hope. <\/p>
Jenny used to feel very comfortable with him.His caring,pampering made her to have a strong belief on him.Innocent jenny used to pray a lot to be placed in the \n\nsame college as his.Luckily or Unluckily,She found him in the same college of her graduation. At that moment,Her happiness hit the sky. <\/p>
As days passed,they became closer to each other than before.The unnoticed feeling at her schooling was noticed now.They both were happy being in a relationship.His \n\nattention towards her and his advice to her in every matter impressed her.He used to present her gifts which she was awaiting to buy .She believed that choosing him is the right decision \n\nin her life though all other decisions might go wrong. <\/p>
He used to prove his love towards her in every situation.He used to allow her to live herself,except in some cases if she is wrong.He first make her laugh when she \n\ncries and later used to find out the reason behind her tears.For example,If in any matter her parents shout at her she calls him and shows all her anger in the form of tears which he never likes and make her understand the inner voice of her parents. <\/p>
Jenny shares every single matter with him and he listens to her with lot of patience.Though he doesn't share everything with her but the most important things in his life were shared with her first and then to others.This importance given by him to Jenny made her like him from the depth of the heart.<\/p>
As time passes,do you think Jenny remained the happiest and luckiest girl ever? <\/p>
Are you interested to know what had happened to her in the coming days? <\/p>
If yes,then<\/p>
Stay tuned till I come back with my next article on Jenny. <\/p>"}]
There are certain words that become a part of our growing up process, indispensable and routine. A students\u2019 repertoire is dotted with words unleashed during student life. Some words may have the potential of staggering and knocking us down with great force so much so that we have to grapple with them and learn to inculcate them in our daily lives in order to stand back on our feet again. One such word that looms very large on our minds is Motivation. We use it liberally, either blaming it for all our failures or applauding it for all our successes. Have we really comprehended its significance in our lives, I wonder? When our coaches or mentors tell us we lack motivation, we dart to every corner within eyesight\/reach, in its pursuit which may on occasions seem endless and unfruitful. Our search result then either makes us come back satiated and smiling at having found it or grumpy and disheartened at having failed.<\/p>"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512023206717","data":"What are we attempting to seek? Is it a person, place or thing? Is it something elusive or within our grasp? When we attach motivation to a person we tend to emulate him or her and imbibe his or her way of life to achieve what we want in life \u2026.sounds rather warped doesn\u2019t it? Why should we follow what someone else has done to get what we want in life? If it\u2019s a place then how does that physical location motivate us when we are based in another geographical location? Is it a thing? An inanimate thing? How can that add a meaning to our living animate lives? Hmm\u2026.. We live in dichotomies and does it make a radical difference if a few more creep in as we add this too to our daily existence?
Let\u2019s revisit a happy positive word like Success - in our student life when we achieve it we are all smiles and are magnanimous and bestow appreciation and credit on our sources whether they belong to the living or inanimate kingdom and mouth the \u201cIf it hadn\u2019t been for you or that \u2026\u2026.\u201d<\/p>
<\/p>"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512023305290","data":"
Now fast forward to failure \u2013 dark, dreary and restricting, after which, without any hesitation, we partake in the blame game and mouth regretfully \u201cif it had been this way or that way we would have \u2026\u2026\u2026.\u201d In my opinion, it\u2019s high time that you as students came to terms with the fact that motivation \u201cis a resource that can\u2019t be outsourced \u2019\u2019 and this line, should provide music to your ears and be one of the sweetest sounds that you hear because of the wealth of meaning that it embodies. It\u2019s now time to internalize that motivation and seek it \u201cwithin.\u201d We fail when we try to seek it outside \u2013 either in others, in situations or in things which are beyond our control. If for a moment we understand and comprehend that the cause of any failure or success rests with us and more precisely within us we would already be on the path of motivation. When the desire to achieve things begins within us it must also be fanned within us and flourish to its conclusion there. If we do fail, it is largely due to our inability to keep ourselves motivated enough to reach our destination, given that sometimes there may be insurmountable hurdles\/odds which are not within our control.<\/p>"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512023210386","data":"
What then is the remedy to counter the malaise of demotivation a term which is becoming very rampant in student life and being grossly misused to account for an individual\u2019s failure? Whereas on the contrary, its brighter sibling \u2013 motivation is being used to shower praise on something or someone who we felt motivated us to achieve our success. The answer and remedy lie in ownership. It\u2019s time to take the word by its reins and started owning it. It belongs to us and to nobody\/nothing else. Time to understand that the buck starts and stops with us. It\u2019s time to realise that we were probably confusing inspiration with motivation. So what then is the next step? What should do we do now? It\u2019s time to look within and draw on our inner resources - our very own independent well of motivation that lies as a throbbing pulsating entity, a living organism within us just waiting to be tapped.<\/p>"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512023331722","data":"
Wouldn\u2019t we be truly motivated individuals when we learnt to look for Inspiration outside and motivation within?<\/p>
<\/p>
Shabnam Asthana\n<\/b> <\/p>"}]
Issac Asimov has to be one of my favourite Science Fiction writers of all time. The period he was active in was home to many of Sci-Fi's greatest writers, but Asimov is the one who had the most impact on me. As funny as it sounds, I didn't actually start reading Asimov until I watched Will Smith's I, Robot in theatres, which was an adaptation of his book. <\/p>
Enthralled by the story and how it moved, enchanted by the three rules of robotics that Asimov lays down that, to this day, is still used by other Sci-Fi writers in their own works, I, Robot was my entry into the world of Sci-Fi outside of video games, the stories of which were inspired from the Sci-Fi greats themselves. <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512040779993","data":"5a1fee9389ba5"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512040781467","data":"
The Three Laws Of Robotics: <\/b> <\/p>
In the story, Asimov writes that every artificial intelligent robot must adhere to the three rules of robotics laid down by the creators (in this case, Humans). They are as follows. <\/p>
1. A robot may not injure a human being or, through inaction, allow a human being to come to harm.<\/p>
2. A robot must obey orders given it by human beings except where such orders would conflict with the First Law.<\/p>
3. A robot must protect its own existence as long as such protection does not conflict with the First or Second Law.<\/p>
As you can see, the three laws seem pretty air tight to quell any rebellion against humanity. But, are they really are?<\/p>
I, Robot is one of those stories that make you sit back in shock and awe because of just how much the story blows your mind. It made me think just how can anyone be so good as to write a story this deep, this understanding of the nature of a human being and how survival instincts are put to the test when pushed to its limits. It asks us what the meaning of life is, what does it mean to be alive, it questions slavery, racism, trust and even friendship. <\/p>
I, Robot changed the world, it changed how Sci-Fi was written, it influenced countless movies and even more video games. It is a cultural landmark, and everyone must read it. <\/p>"}]
Asia Inc. 500 presented it\u2019s one of a kind Growth Conclave 2017 & Women At Work Awards to honor and inspire every women entrepreneur in India happened on 24 November 2017 at T-Hub, Hyderabad with over 350 guest invitees and in which 200 invitees were the fabulous women who have supported the details of the event with many insights and cheer over 100 students and 50+ volunteers from various cities across the country who have made the event successful. <\/p>
The events, as they happened, are as follows. <\/p>
We begin with Katherine B. Hadda, United States Consul in the City of Hyderabad who was invited as Chief Guest to the prestigious event. She went on to deliver a keynote speech that heralded the beginning of the event marking the achievements of women in various fields, before the ceremony moved to presenting the awards to the winners. <\/p>
There were a total of 9 awardees under various categories, they are as follows. <\/p>
1. Excellence in Business and Technology Women Leader for 2017 : Jackie Montado (CIO & Senior Director, PepsiCo APAC<\/b><\/p>
2. Excellence In Sports (2017) : Archana Das (Cricketer, Indian National Team)<\/b><\/p>
3. Excellence In Medicine (2017) : Dr Sindhu Joshi <\/b><\/p>
4. Excellence in Youth Transformation (2017) : Sujiv Nair (CEO Telangana Academy for Skill and Knowledge )<\/b><\/p>
5. Excellence in eGovernance (2017) : Sri Rajendra Nimje ( DG, Centre for Good Governance) <\/b><\/p>
6. Most Promising Business School in India (2017 ) Jury Award : Woxsen School of Business. Arvind Subramanyam, Dean Woxsen<\/b><\/p>
7. Excellence in IT Products and Platforms (2017) : Srinivas Arasada - Evolutyz Corp<\/b><\/p>
8. Excellence in Women Health and Women Empowerment (2017) : Dr. Manjula Anagani (Padmashree Award winner) <\/b><\/p>
9. Excellence in Music and Arts (2017) : Pranati Khanna<\/b><\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512035121400","data":"5a1fd5c5efe53"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512035123767","data":"5a1fd5bf126f2"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512035125602","data":"5a1fd5d7ab0e7"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512035674661","data":"
All the awardees were more than thrilled to be bestowed with this honor and hope for the best to happen with this platform in the future. Sujiv Nair (CEO, TASK) - who was awarded Excellence in Youth Transformation (2017) says \u201cAm humbled to receive this pan Asia award on behalf of the Government of Telangana, my team and our stakeholders. Over the last few years TASK has encouraged women participation in various initiatives and many a times the stats reflect that the girl students have out performed the boys so here is more power to them! Thanks\u201d. Archana Das, Cricketer, Indian National Team - who was awarded Excellence in sports (2017) says \u201cI am honoured to receive the award for excellence in sports. I am extremely proud that i was given a chance to talk about Women Empowerment. My heart-felt thank you to this platform which is setting an example by finding talents, felicitating them and on the way also making sure everyone is being aware of the difficulties women face. This kind of contribution to the city is invaluable. Pranati Khanna received Excellence in Music and Arts (2017) says \"I am blessed to receive this award for Excellence in Music and Arts and emphatically extend my thanks to the team from Asia Inc. 500 for bestowing this honour upon me. To every woman in this country who has dared to explore a career off the beaten track...to every woman who has fought for recognition for what she does - I dedicate this to you and promise you that this is proof that everything we strive to be and fight for is no longer for nothing.\" Jackie Montado (CIO & Senior Director, PepsiCo APAC received Excellence in Business and Technology Women Leader for 2017 says \u201cAs technology continues to rapidly evolve, we need more women to join the field and bring their unique perspectives, skills, and capabilities. We are at the forefront of what is yet still to come. Therefore, I am honored to be recognized as the 2017 Women Leader for Excellence in Business and Technology, and I hope to continue to set the example for future technology leaders.\u201d <\/p>"},{"type":"img","id":"img-uid-1512035808692","data":"5a1fd6685cb75"},{"type":"txt","id":"rich_1512035818109","data":"
Multiple Panel Discussions happened that spoke on trending and empowering concepts such as \u201cWomen leaders breaking glass Ceiling\u201d and eminent women leaders being a part of the ecosystem that they constantly come across these women idols or situations that they themselves experienced have been discussed in the panel. <\/p>
Joanna Kane-Potaka (Director, Strategic Marketing and Communication - ICRISAT)<\/p>
Namita Prasad (Group General Counsel & Legal Head)<\/p>
Yina Qiao (Founder ChrisDol Global Entertainment Ekta Bahl (Samvad Partners)<\/p>
Sweta Shetty (MD, Startup BootCamp India) spoke about Women in Startup (Journey & Road so far) and another panel discussed about \u201cWomen in Tech \u2013 Force to reckon with\u201d<\/p>
Shanta Thoutam (Director Innovation, T-Hub)<\/p>
Sowjanya Chalamkuri (Sr. Director, GE Digital)Sailaja Josyula (Head Transformation & Site Lead Hyderabad, Thomson Reuters)<\/p>
Vasanthi Narayanan (Head HR, United Technologies)<\/p>
Uma Devaguptapu (Director - HR, Asia-Pac & MEA at Signode Industrial Group) spoke about all the Common barriers for women leaders after which another Panel Discussio on \u201cChallenges & Opportunity in Entrepreneurship\u201d for women have been discussed by<\/p>
Shobha Dixit (Director, ALPLA India & Chairperson, IWN Telangana)<\/p>
Nandita Sethi (Managing Director, The Entrepreneur Zone<\/p>
Tanuja Abburi (HR Professional and Member, IWN Telangana)<\/p>
Suhit Anantula (Impact Strategist & Facilitator, Business Models Inc. Australia)<\/p>"}]
No, I don\u2019t miss him. But sometimes I just think about him. <\/p>
No, I don\u2019t want him back.\nBut sometimes I just feel like diving deep into those magical eyes, again, once again for the last time. <\/p>
No, I don\u2019t want to see him.\nBut sometimes I just want to hold him in my arms and lose myself right there, in that very moment.<\/p>
It has been more than 2 years since I last saw him, since I\u2019ve heard from him or even stalked him on Facebook or Instagram.\nI still remember the first day I met him and I did not like the way he behaved. He was annoying. I remember how I couldn\u2019t bear a sight of him being around me. But how could I change things? We were in the same college and a part of the same friends group. <\/p>
We were studying Science and preparing for the entrance test for medicine. I however, realized that I did not want to continue with the medicine and left it but he was very determined. He took a long year and prepared for it. And; he did not stay in the same city for the preparation.\nEverything was good so far. I had amazing friends, I started an organisation for social awareness, gained interests in the startup culture and was happy with life.\nMy organisation was a new one and I required volunteers for the few events I had planned to do. One day, out of the blue, I received a text from him. He said he was in the city for the next few months until he confirmed his medicine seat in a college and wanted to catch up. He also said that he heard about the organization and wanted to work with me because he wanted to do something productive during his stay here. <\/p>
My mind told me that it was absolutely alright to talk to him because a whole year could have bought some change in him and he might not be as annoying as he was earlier.\nMovies, coffee chance ons, lunch meets and 'hey, I was just passing by!' encounters had become a modus operandi for the two of us. Slowly but gradually we started to like each other and we did not waste a lot of time on the emotional drama. I was convinced with the sense of purity in his heart and did not delay in telling him that we could give it a try when he asked me out on my birthday. <\/p>
Even though I was aware of the fact that this feeling of love is not something I could really handle, I did accept him for the way he was with ease. <\/p>
You should know that I am an impudent, incorrigible, uncontrollable, arrogant and a self centered human being. Every time I failed, I was even more dangerous. I wanted things to be the way I wanted them to be. But yes, with him, it was different. And the irony is, this contradictory self image of mine with him was never the matter of concern to me.\nI liked 'me' while I was with him. <\/p>
I liked being there for him when he needed me. <\/p>
I liked the fact that he let me stretch my legs on his knees after I had a very long flight one weekend. <\/p>
I liked the fact that I was the only person who was a link to all the circles of his life; be it family or school friends or troubles or happiness. <\/p>
I liked the fact that he told me that he wanted to be with me and none of the other people he knew, because I made him feel alive. I liked being his. <\/p>
I liked it when he called my name with an imbued sense of calmness, love and serenity. <\/p>
I liked the fact that he hugged me until I could listen to the crushing sound of my bones.\nI liked the fact that he never wanted to keep his hands off me. <\/p>
I liked the fact that he spoke to me gazing right through my eyes without the fear of being judged.\nI liked the fact that he wanted to buy us similar tee-shirts though he hated to shop. <\/p>
I liked the fact that he constantly kept asking me for a day-long date and was eager to pick me up. <\/p>
I liked the fact that I was the center of his world, things started and ended at me. <\/p>
I liked it when I saw tears in his eyes while I surprised him with a cake to celebrate his happiness on getting through his dream of walking on the path of being a doctor (soon). <\/p>
I liked the fact that my only companion (my phone) during bad health beeped every hour with a message that said, \u201cDon\u2019t worry sweetheart, it is time for your medicine. You\u2019ll be fine in no time because I love you more than that virus which has made home in you and I will not let this happen because it is only me who has the right to be yours. I love you!\u201d <\/p>
I mean; how could I not make him my world? How could I not fall head over heels in love with him? How could he be so perfect? How could a person like me end up being with such a charming guy? Of Course; he was the only best thing in my life and I\u2019d never let him go. I could do anything to keep him happy, to stay with him and to make my life more beautiful than it could ever be without him. <\/p>
Oh wait! I never envisaged even a mere possibility of not having him in my life. Not now, not ever. Him and me were meant to be together forever.\nHours became days and days became months. And now, the only thing which was changing, was our alacrity for being with each other. <\/p>
When our weekly rendezvoused discussions seemed incomplete, we decided to increase the count by 2 per week. But this could only lead to a widening computation of a quotidian amount of laughter and fun.\nMy daily mornings embraced his presence. We jogged, played, walking miles together and had endless chats until we realized that we had to now wait for 12 hours to see each other again. The evenings turned out to be the most beautiful ones; 0% stress, 0% cranky behavior, 0% fights, 0% misunderstandings. <\/p>
Phew! Could things get any better?\nWe understood what we had to say even without uttering a word. Seems very fictitious; but trust me; every bit of it is true! And we did not try and put in efforts to have the most sorted out relationship; it came to us naturally.\nThe only thing I wanted to do; was to be there for him. I did not want him to feel that he was alone. I never wanted to hurt him, belittle him or leave him. All I ever tried to do was to make sure he is doing fine, he is happy and he is sorted. Ours was the most perfect relationship. We were happy. And what else does a person want in a living except to be happy? <\/p>
But; happiness never comes easy. There are situations you need to face which change the fate of your life. They change everything.\nAnd one such time came in our lives too. It was a silent storm which took away everything from us. Everything.\nHe got a seat in a medical college, but in another city. <\/p>
Different schedules couldn\u2019t alter the love for each other but not being able to handle this separation caused a major setback in the journey of our relationship.\n6 months after struggling and crawling through the aftereffects of the play of time; I remember he said to me, \u201cThe most unexpected happenings turn out to be the best love stories. And keep in mind that, couples which are meant to be, are the ones who go through anything and everything that is meant to tear them apart only to come out stronger.\u201d\nReading this, gave me a sense of certainty, assurance, dependability, some sort of solidness in our relationship. I trusted him more than anyone else in the world and I wanted him to come to me as soon as possible, to hold me, to kiss me and tell me that I did not have to worry because things wouldn\u2019t change. <\/p>
But, time and distance could be crucial game-changers.\nIndeed, in our case they were.\nOne random day; I received a call and I couldn\u2019t feel the same thing from his end, some sort of coldness creeped between us. A deep feeling of woe filled my heart and I just knew what he wanted to say, what he was feeling and what was going to happen. <\/p>
We did not speak for a quarter of an hour and there was a feeling of nothingness between us, sight of nihility, awareness of absence, and then consciousness of truth slowly creeped in and the only words which found their way through me were-\n\u201cBUT WHY?\u201d\nYes, I understood that he fell out of love, I understood that we definitely made each other happy but there is a time frame for everything.\nAll I knew was, things had changed, for the better and for the worse at the same time. I was hollowed out. I was lost. I wanted to escape.\nBut where? To the future? The future where I never expected his absenteeism?\nAnd what else could I do? I could do nothing but support him, be with him for what he felt and just leave it to time. <\/p>
It was the most difficult, excruciating, petrified, and a frozen sort of time! But I had to pull myself together because he was not the only thing in life I had to concentrate on.\nIt wasn\u2019t late for me to understand that he was definitely the most happening part of my life; but just a PART of my life, NOT the sole basis of my existence. He was not the only one I needed for my survival, for practicing my humanly right of being happy and feeling the good in the world.\nI had to stand up again, I had to build myself, I trusted my instincts. But this doesn\u2019t mean that I wasn\u2019t sad. <\/p>
I was broke- broken to an extent that it wouldn\u2019t have been surprising for me to cut my nerves or jump from the top of a building.\nBut was I so broke that I\u2019d become weak? Was I so grief-struck that I stopped valuing myself anymore? Was it right to be wretched and finish my life? Would it have been the right decision to let my blue blood paint words of tearful concern?\nNo. Certainly not.\nI was made to be thrown at the wolves only so that I could come back leading the pack. I was born to be a warrior, not just a survivor.\nI am meant to be strong enough to face and mature enough to grasp the cord of my emotions.\nAnd now I stand proud to have been evolved.\nAll I have to do is embrace each part of my life with equal amounts of excitement and enthusiasm. <\/p>
All I have to do is use the satellite technique and the pyramid technique to make sure I maintain positive levels of my sanity.\nYes, I moved on, but, I do miss him sometimes.\nHe remains a good piece of my distinct memory. <\/p>
At least this way, I managed to bring myself together and I try to motivate myself every now and then.\nThis was my dark side and probably the bright side of love too. <\/p>"}]
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