Some people say that introverts are socially awkward, while some claim that introverts to be extremely shy people who find it difficult to create their own social space within a group of others. The reality of INTROVERSION is not liking to mix up too much and rather like being alone.
There are many misconceptions about introversion which is leading people to think as someone who is shy, depressed, withdrawn, closed off, anti-social, awkward in group settings or unhappy is an introvert. These are not characteristics of an introvert who can love life and enjoy the company of others. An introvert tends to evaluate their social interactions based upon how the world affects them. Introverts are more comfortable with their own self and prefer to spend their time with themselves alone..
Someone sometimes said that if we see an introvert sitting alone in a party or a social gathering, we should not mistake him to be another socially awkward, reticent, weird guy who just likes to sit alone in a corner and do nothing. Because they have a whole universe in their head and they are busy in their own universe of thoughts.
Introverts can recognise that observing people and a silent presence is also a way to socialise. They do not feel the pressure of active participation in a group. They can also connect to people from their strengths of imagination and innovation.
Introverts often think there is something matter with them and think they don’t fit in it because they compare themselves to extroverts who are a different species. People don't understand introverts because people in general are not introverted. It's just because extroverts are pretty easy to be understood most of the times. Extroverts, express themselves a lot wheras introverts won't.
Just because this world is full of extroverts doesn't mean introversion is just another side effect of the relentless social cycle that goes in this world. Their life is very simple. They have a limited social circle. They have a few friends who are very close to their heart. To express their emotions, thoughts, they need to actually put effort, to share them with someone. They find happiness in the smallest of things.
If we could burst the personal bubble surrounding the introverts, then they are fun to be around with. The weird thing about introverts is that once they are comfortable with us, they can be the sweetest, most enjoyable, most honest creatures in this world. Therefore, respect the need for an introvert to disconnect from people for a while rather than judge them to be arrogant.
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